I made a conscious effort to affirm the great job they were doing and to talk to the mom about MOPS. I suggested that a community of moms would give her energy and encouragement in this new phase of her mothering journey. She admitted that most of her mom connections were with families of older children, now that her boys were school-aged.
"We can be encouraged when we are down,
and we can encourage another mom
when she is down."
The great joy and love that we feel for our children does help equip us
for motherhood, whether we enter motherhood through adoption or
biological birth. But sometimes the feeling of love can wear thin as we
face the daily challenges of life. That’s where our community of MOPS
lifts us up – we can be encouraged when we are down, and we can
encourage another mom when she is down. You are part of this community
now through your MOPS group, and hopefully you are taking risks and
going deeper in relationships with the moms in your group. and we can encourage another mom
when she is down."
What about the moms who don’t have this welcoming and loving community? I could just as easily have chatted with this mom and not mentioned MOPS at all, but why wouldn’t I want to share tangible and practical encouragement with a mom? We are all surrounded by moms who need love without borders, a love that invites and welcomes moms into MOPS.
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